Hola people,
It's been a while since I wrote anything. I actually was reading something about people caring what others think about them and then someone suggesting that don't care what people think. Now,wondering upon the same thought have you ever found this thing applicable to your personal life? I mean we can have that I-don't-care attitude for only a while ,but after that what others think of us starts getting to our heads and bugging us. People judge you and put labels on you and you can only ignore them for just a while. After that you start doubting yourself too,and then you believe in all those judgements passed on about you and in the end you let them define you. So I think it does matter what others think about you.
But should it? I mean are you living your life for your own self or are you living their lives for them? Are you having fun with how life is working out for you? If the first question is answered "I'm living my own life" and the second one is answered "Yup" then continue with your life. People are used to pass judgements and they will and only because they know that in the end you are gonna give in to what they think.
So, if you're in high school and a nerd or a geek as termed by the others hell stay that way. You're the one who's gonna end up in MIT or Harvard or Yale or the other universities. Someone thinks you're not bright just because you're among the jocks well then you're the one whose gonna end up with the sports scholarship or compete in the Olympics.
In short, at times what others think does matter but don't let it define you your whole life. 'Cause life has a way of working out in the end.
Regards,
MNK....
It's been a while since I wrote anything. I actually was reading something about people caring what others think about them and then someone suggesting that don't care what people think. Now,wondering upon the same thought have you ever found this thing applicable to your personal life? I mean we can have that I-don't-care attitude for only a while ,but after that what others think of us starts getting to our heads and bugging us. People judge you and put labels on you and you can only ignore them for just a while. After that you start doubting yourself too,and then you believe in all those judgements passed on about you and in the end you let them define you. So I think it does matter what others think about you.
But should it? I mean are you living your life for your own self or are you living their lives for them? Are you having fun with how life is working out for you? If the first question is answered "I'm living my own life" and the second one is answered "Yup" then continue with your life. People are used to pass judgements and they will and only because they know that in the end you are gonna give in to what they think.
So, if you're in high school and a nerd or a geek as termed by the others hell stay that way. You're the one who's gonna end up in MIT or Harvard or Yale or the other universities. Someone thinks you're not bright just because you're among the jocks well then you're the one whose gonna end up with the sports scholarship or compete in the Olympics.
In short, at times what others think does matter but don't let it define you your whole life. 'Cause life has a way of working out in the end.
Regards,
MNK....
It does matter what someone think about you if you want to be good or to attain a high position in front of him or her, but if you want to attain a high position in front of ALLAH it really does not matter. Once you succeeded to attain a good position in front of ALLAH HE will never let you down in front of others. Difficulties are to be faced by every person...A person who is known as the BEST Human in this world, yes our Holy prophet (PBUH) had to face a lot of problems...People taunted him (PBUH) but now the whole world respects him. Yes there are some exceptions and for that exceptions i'll say "Naik ne naik smjha, bad ne bad smjha...jitna jis ka zarf tha, utna hi pehchana mujhe"
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